Note: this was first posted April 5, 2025 www.ministryaiandi.com
A SERVANT TO THE CHRISTIAN LEADER L. PATRIARCHY..
BUT NOT AUTHORITARIAN CONTROLLED BY
“SUBMITTED TO THE CHARISMATIC LEVITICAL PATRIARCHY”
(AND ANY SIMILAR STYLE)
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PS We need to note, that the First Church was ALL “Mutually submission in the fear of the Lord” Ephesians 5:21 (even offices, elders, leaders, lay also marriages)
This was what we now should regard as “apostolic Bible organic” for the fact was that is ALLL servant leader, and more cell oriented, house to house (no prophetic keeping tabs on) ,But later, it evolved into what we see “now” as the most predominant form “the top down” (authoritarian, one man organization, famous ,local, business ministry model) (I’ve written on this previouslyย even in March)
“NO PERSON SHOULD SERVEย TWO SENIOR MASTERS”
This is plain old fashioned “Common Sense”..for IF there was “ONE” MAN, HUMAN, Sr office MINISTER, OFFICE MINISTRY CLUB, STYLE OR FLOW “OVER THE REST OF US”..It would be UNSAFE. (due to carnal pitfalls)
POWER CORRUPTS: ABSOLUTE** POWER CORRUPTS ABSOLUTELY“
Old Adage (**the word Absalom appears to be in the word Absolute)
First Church Apostle Paul Ephesians 5:21 (KJV)
Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God.
First Church Apostle Paul Philippians 2:12 (KJV)
“Work out your own salvation in fear and trembling “
To Those in Patriarchal Charismatic Movements:
A Big Reminder: These is not “letter of the OT Law days” and “NOBODY (not one human person, nor one ministry office style, nor one authentic prophetic, or Bible teaching ministry “flow” is over “EVERY ONE ” and they ought to understand this:
The New Testament does not teach that women must be universally submitted to male authority, especially not in the blanket form that some charismatic-patriarchal teachings imply. That doctrine is extra-biblical, rooted in tradition and controlโnot in Christ.
1. The First Church Was Not a Hierarchy.
The early church, as shown in Ephesians 5:21, operated on mutual submission in the fear of the Lordโnot hierarchical control. There was no top-down “chain of command” requiring all women to submit to every man who claimed authority. The apostolic foundation was servant-based, Christ-modeled, and relationalโnot dominating or suspicious.
2. Philippians 2:12 says to โwork out your own salvation with fear and trembling.โ
Thatโs the believerโs right to hear from God personally, male or female. You do not need the stamp of a self-appointed patriarch to be led by the Spirit.
The Holy Spirit gives discernment to the individualโperiod.
3. James 3:17 describes godly wisdom as pure, peaceable, gentle, easy to be entreated, full of mercy and good fruit, without partiality and without hypocrisy.
If your doctrine or leadership style doesnโt resemble that, itโs not Christโitโs carnality wrapped in religious language.
4. Galatians 1:1โ2 makes it clear: Paul was not sent by man nor through man, but by Jesus Christ and God the Father. Yet he walked in community and accountability with others.
That models true apostolic sending: not submission to a personality cult or prophetic tribe, but respectful community without control.
5. Women are not second-class in the Body of Christ.
Galatians 3:28 declares: โThere is neither Jew nor Greek, slave nor free, male nor female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus.โ
Anyone teaching otherwise is operating in legalism, flesh, or fearโnot the Spirit
To Those Who ‘Diagnose’ from Afar:
If you believe you can read someoneโs spirit without speaking to them, without relationship, without bearing the James 3:17 fruit, you are operating in errorโand possibly divination, not discernment.
The Bible warns against โaccusing the brethrenโ (Rev. 12:10) and practicing spectral judgment without facts (Isaiah 11:3-4).
You are not the Holy Spirit.
The Body of Christ is called to restore, not control (Galatians 6:1). Jesus led by example, not domination. Paul reasoned from the Scripturesโnot accusations.
To the Quiet, Mutually Submitted, Word-Knowing Ministers (like this me):
This “mutually submitted “non celebrity, Galatians 1:2-3 mature office person has every rightโbiblically, spiritually, and theologicallyโto stand, to speak, and to discern. And walk under the fruit of the Spirit, not the fear of man. Keep living out James 3:17. Keep leading with maturity. This ,mature silence is not weaknessโitโs strength under control.
One shouldย are not regarded by all white patronizing men, nor the subservient, barking leader women, as “targeted” as ” under suspicion” just because one, like this,ย is a God formed, directed and His Holy Spirit (self governed) however female leader and purposely, expressly as a formed fashioned non elite, Galatians 1:1-2,ย not to be smothered, target monitored, big boss controlled and micromanaged by a mature, renown however, privileged squire movement.
Letโs ‘each” train the Body back to Christlike governance, where leadership serves, and all believersโmale and femaleโwalk in mutual respect, honor, and Spirit-led maturity.
Sincerely yours,
Self Governing Sister T, director, overseer, founder leader of the
Cross Body Unity Movement,Found in Sr Pastor, Visionary Prophet, Apostolic Overseer DFW Leader Ministry Fellowship The IFFM (International Fellowship of Foundational Ministries Eph 2:19-21 Office Mentoring,ย and the servant apostolic Taveau Teaching and Resource Centers, now open.
THE “WHO’S OVER WHOM” FIRST CHURCH SCRIPTURES
Taveau asks Chat GPT I:ย
After Christ left, did the First Church( Paul, nor any of the First Twelve Apostles) set up ONE single person (authority man) or ONE office leader..ORย ministry “governing style” to be “over: all others?
Either way please expound
Chat GPT replies:
No. Instead, the New Testament shows a plurality of leadership, a diversity of spiritual offices, and a non-hierarchical model where Christ alone is the Head.
Letโs walk through some clear Bible-based proof:
ย JESUSโ OWN EXAMPLE: NO ONE-MAN RULE
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Matthew 23:8โ10 (KJV)
โBut be not ye called Rabbi: for one is your Master, even Christ; and all ye are brethren.
And call no man your father upon the earth: for one is your Father, which is in heaven.
Neither be ye called masters: for one is your Master, even Christ.โ
++ Key Point: Jesus taught that all were brethren, and leadership was to be servant-based, not titled hierarchy.
ACTS CHURCH: PLURALITY OF LEADERSHIP
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Acts 13:1 (KJV)
โNow there were in the church that was at Antioch certain prophets and teachers;
as Barnabas, and Simeon that was called Niger, and Lucius of Cyrene, and Manaen… and Saul.โ
++ Key Point: The Antioch church had multiple prophets and teachers ministering as equalsโno one-man rule.
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Acts 14:23 (KJV)
โAnd when they had ordained them elders in every church, and had prayed with fasting,
they commended them to the Lord, on whom they believed.โ
++ Paul and Barnabas appointed plural elders in every church, not one ruler or “covering” over all.
ย PAULโS TEACHING: DIFFERENT GIFTS, SAME BODY
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Ephesians 4:11โ12 (KJV)
โAnd he gave some, apostles; and some, prophets; and some, evangelists; and some, pastors and teachers;
For the perfecting of the saints, for the work of the ministry, for the edifying of the body of Christ.โ
++ Key Point: Paul never ranked these roles. They were different functions, not power hierarchies.
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1 Corinthians 12:28โ29 (KJV)
โAnd God hath set some in the church, first apostles, secondarily prophets, thirdly teachersโฆ
Are all apostles? are all prophets? are all teachers?โ
++ Paul lists order in function, not superiority. It was about service, not domination.
ย NO CENTRALIZED HUMAN GOVERNING BODY
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Galatians 2:6 (KJV)
โBut of these who seemed to be somewhat… it maketh no matter to me: God accepteth no manโs personโฆโ
++ Paul rejected the idea that certain apostles or leaders were โhigher.โ He did not submit to a central authority.
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Galatians 1:1 (KJV)
โPaul, an apostle, (not of men, neither by man, but by Jesus Christโฆ)โ
++ Paul claimed his apostleship came from Jesus, not through a human governing board.
ย FIRST CHURCH STRUCTURE: MUTUAL SUBMISSION
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Ephesians 5:21 (KJV)
โSubmitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God.โ
++ Mutual, respectful submissionโnot spiritual hierarchy or spying.
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1 Corinthians 14:29โ31 (KJV)
โLet the prophets speak two or three, and let the other judge.
โฆFor ye may all prophesy one by one, that all may learn, and all may be comforted.โ
** All could participate. All were respected. No micromanaging or lone bossing.
++ CONCLUSION:
* Jesus did not appoint one ministerial “covering” over all.
* Paul did not submit to a controlling central office.
* The First Church operated in shared leadership, mutual honor, diversity of callings, and submission to Christ as the Head.
Colossians 1:18 (KJV)
โAnd he is the head of the body, the churchโฆโ
Only Christ is the Head. Any human system trying to override that creates a false hierarchy.
Apostle Taveau asks Chat GPT about PETER
TD asks about Peter:ย
Did Christ, who founded, grew the First Church view “Peter” as”ruler over the rest of the apostles, elders, leaders, lay
Chat GPT AI responds:
No, Christ did not set up Peter as a ruler over the rest of the apostles, elders, leaders, or laypeople in the early Church.
Letโs go through it biblically and clearly, using Jesusโ own words and the actions of the apostles:
ย DID JESUS APPOINT PETER AS โHEADโ OVER THE CHURCH?
+ Jesus gave Peter revelation, not supremacy.
Matthew 16:18โ19 (KJV)
โAnd I say also unto thee, That thou art Peter, and upon this rock I will build my church…
And I will give unto thee the keys of the kingdom of heavenโฆโ
++ Some interpret this as Peter being the โfirst popeโ or head of the Churchโbut Jesus never said Peter was the rock. The Greek makes a distinction:
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โPeterโ = Petros (a small stone)
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โthis rockโ = Petra (a massive rock)
** The rock was Peterโs confession of Christ (verse 16):
โThou art the Christ, the Son of the living God.โ
++ Jesus said He would build His Church on that truth, not on one man.
+ JESUS REBUKED POWER STRUGGLES AMONG APOSTLES
Luke 22:24โ26 (KJV)
โAnd there was also a strife among them, which of them should be accounted the greatest.
And he said unto themโฆ he that is greatest among you, let him be as the younger; and he that is chief, as he that doth serve.โ
++ Jesus used that moment to reject hierarchy and teach servant leadership.
+ JESUS COMMISSIONED ALL THE APOSTLES EQUALLY
Matthew 28:19โ20 (KJV)
โGo ye therefore, and teach all nationsโฆโ
++ Jesus gave the Great Commission to all 11 remaining disciples, not to Peter alone.
+ THE EARLY CHURCH HAD SHARED LEADERSHIP
Acts 15:6 (KJV)
โAnd the apostles and elders came together for to consider of this matter.โ
++ At the Jerusalem Council, Peter spoke, but so did Paul, Barnabas, and James.
In fact, James, the Lordโs brother, gave the final rulingโnot Peter (Acts 15:13โ19).
+ PETER HIMSELF REFUSED TO BE WORSHIPED OR EXALTED
Acts 10:25โ26 (KJV)
โAnd as Peter was coming in, Cornelius met him, and fell down at his feet, and worshipped him.
But Peter took him up, saying, Stand up; I myself also am a man.โ
++ Peter never claimed superiority. He acted humbly and equally.
+ PAUL CALLED OUT PETER PUBLICLY WHEN WRONG
Galatians 2:11 (KJV)
โBut when Peter was come to Antioch, I withstood him to the face, because he was to be blamed.โ
++ If Peter were the ultimate authority, Paul could not have corrected him.
This shows mutual accountability, not hierarchy.
** CONCLUSION:
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Jesus never made Peter head over all.
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The Church was built on faith in Christ, not on one person.
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The apostles functioned as a team, under Christ the Head.
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The model was Ephesians 5:21 โ โSubmitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God.โ
ย HOW THE FIRST CHURCH PATTERN APPLIES TO JESUSโ CHURCH TODAY**
**But..is it genuinely HIS Church…or “is it “OURS” (only interested inย US? Serving “me,ย our” “own” human values ?)
1. CHRIST ALONE IS THE HEADโNOT A HUMAN TITLE OR OFFICE
Colossians 1:18 โ โHe is the head of the body, the church.โ
Today, many church movements act as if a senior pastor, apostle, or prophetic leader is the head.
But in Jesusโ true Church, Christ remains the only Head.
No single man, woman, denomination, or movement owns the Church.
2. SHARED LEADERSHIP, NOT A DOMINANT CHAIN OF COMMAND
Acts 14:23 โ โThey ordained elders in every churchโฆโ
Ephesians 4:11 โ โHe gave some apostles, prophets, evangelists, pastors, teachersโฆโ
Todayโs Jesus-followers must reclaim the model of shared servant-leadership, not boss-based control systems.
Ministry roles are for equipping, not controlling the saints. Every believer has a place, a gift, and a voice.
3. MUTUAL SUBMISSION, NOT SPIRITUAL SPYING OR POWER STRUGGLES
Ephesians 5:21 โ โSubmitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God.โ
Galatians 6:1 โ โRestore such a one in a spirit of meeknessโฆโ
God never authorized โspiritual watchdogsโ or control-based apostles to watch, accuse, and rule over othersโespecially not without relationship.
True First Church leaders confront personally (Matthew 18:15), not by gossip, slander, or public shaming.
Jesusโ Church operates in humility, respect, and open dialogue, not control or fear.
4. NO HUMAN โCOVERINGโ SYSTEM REQUIRED FOR VALIDITY OR CALLING
Galatians 1:1 โ โPaul, an apostle, not of men, neither by man, but by Jesus Christโฆโ
Philippians 2:12 โ โWork out your own salvation with fear and trembling.โ
Today, some teach that a person must be under a โcoveringโ to be valid in ministry.
But Paul shows that God can call, send, and anoint independently of any man-made hierarchy.
All believers are accountable directly to the Lord, and operate in community, not in bondage.
5. RELATIONSHIP-BASED FELLOWSHIP, NOT SPIRITUAL POLICING
1 John 1:7 โ โIf we walk in the light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship one with anotherโฆโ
Modern misuse of authority often replaces healthy fellowship with surveillance and fear.
But Jesusโ real Church walks in the light of truth, in real love, real respect, and clean conscience.
There is no “inner discernment” that excuses suspicion without actual conversation (Matthew 18:15).
+++ TRAINING REMINDER:
Jesus’ real Church today is:
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Christ-governed
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Elder-led (plural, not dominant)
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Spirit-empowered
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Accountability-basedโbut through respectful dialogue
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Gift-diverse
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Mutually submitted in Christ (Eph. 5:21)
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Focused on the fruit of James 3:17โโpeaceable, gentle, easy to be entreated
For the Patriarchy In Christian Ministry:
Training Handout: First Church Protocol โ Apostolic Order Without Patriarchy or Control
Title: “Mutual Submission, Not Hierarchy”
Audience: Ministry leaders, new believers, and seasoned saints seeking clarity and biblical balance.
** 1. The Original Church Model Was Not Hierarchical or Authoritarian
Ephesians 5:21 โ โSubmitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God.โ
++ Greek (hypotassรณ): Voluntary yielding in love, not forced control.
➡ The early Church taught mutual submission, not a top-down male chain of command.
Galatians 1:1 โ โPaul, an apostleโ not sent from men nor through the agency of man, but through Jesus Christ…”**
++ Greek (apostolos): One who is sent on divine commission, not controlled by hierarchy.
➡ Paul established the principle that God sends individuals, not religious systems.
** 2. God Speaks to Individuals โ Women and Men Alike
Philippians 2:12 โ โWork out your own salvation with fear and trembling.โ
++ Greek (katergazomai): To fully perform or accomplish inward change.
➡ Personal relationship with God is foundationalโnot external policing.
Joel 2:28 / Acts 2:17 โ โYour sons and daughters shall prophesy…โ
++ Hebrew (naba): Speak or sing under divine inspiration.
➡ No restriction on genderโthe Holy Spirit speaks through women.
** 3. The First Church Had Diverse Ministry Gifts, Not Just One Kind of Leader
Ephesians 4:11โ12 โ โApostles, prophets, evangelists, pastors, and teachers…โ
++ Greek (didaskalos, poimen): Teacher, shepherdโnot dominator.
➡ Christ gave a variety of gifts for equipping the saints, not one elite tier of control.
1 Corinthians 12:4โ6 โ โThere are diversities of gifts, but the same Spirit…โ
➡ No monopoly on ministry. Each member contributes uniquely, under Christ.
** 4. Christlike Discernment Demands Personal ContactโNot Spectral Accusation
Galatians 6:1 โ โIf someone is overtaken in a fault, restore such a one in the spirit of meekness…โ
++ Greek (prautฤs): Gentleness, strength under control.
➡ Restore, donโt destroy. Speak to the personโnot about them.
Matthew 18:15 โ โGo and tell him his fault between you and him alone…โ
➡ Private correction first. No room for public shaming or spiritual witch-hunting.
1 John 1:7 โ โIf we walk in the light…we have fellowship with one another.โ
++ Greek (koinonia): Deep participation, shared relationship.
➡ Fellowship implies knowing someone, not spying on them.
++ 5. Apostle Paul Did Not Require Patriarchal CoveringโHe Warned Against It
2 Corinthians 11:20 โ โYou put up with anyone who enslaves you…or slaps you in the face.โ
➡ Paul rebukes religious bullies who spiritually abuse others in God’s name.
Galatians 2:6 โ โThose who seemed to be important…added nothing to me.โ
➡ Paul was not intimidated by popular leaders. He knew his authority was from Christ.
** 6. Real Authority Bears Fruit โ Not Suspicion or Spiritual Espionage
James 3:17 โ โWisdom from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, willing to yield…โ
++ Greek (eupeithฤs): Easily entreated, approachable.
➡ True leadership is approachable and does not weaponize titles or prophetic insight
+++ Conclusion: First Church = Mutual Respect, Spirit-Led Order, No Spectral Surveillance
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Christ is the Head (Colossians 1:18).
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All believers are priests (1 Peter 2:9).
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Women and men prophesy and lead (Acts 21:9, Romans 16:1โ7).
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Spiritual discernment never replaces relationship and never bypasses respect.
++ Suggested Use:
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Leadership team meetings
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Bible study discussions
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Ministry onboarding and training
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Conflict resolution tools in fellowships
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